Don’t let trauma stop you.
BDSM can seem overwhelming if you’ve got past trauma…
But it doesn’t have to be. With our proven systems and tools, we make it seem easier and safer than greeting an old friend.
We even help you design cathartic BDSM scenes to address the root causes of your trauma so you heal while having kinky fun.
It’s the best medicine out there… promise!
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How can we help you?
Everyone’s journey is unique, including yours. Here are some common ways we help people overcome their trauma so they can have pleasurable, connective kinky fun.
Self-Paced Courses
Heal and grow at your own pace with our comprehensive and accessible courses.
In-Person Retreats
A personal touch with group support. Join our next small-group retreat in Chicago, IL.
Private Coaching
Sometimes, you just need 1:1 support. We offer single sessions and 6-month packages.
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Practice safer kink today.
Effective scene negotiation is a cornerstone of safe, ethical BDSM, but many people approach negotiation haphazardly.
Download our free trauma-sensitive negotiation checklist and feel confident you’re creating kinky scenes that are fun, not traumatizing.
Step by step
How we work
Our process isn’t rocket science, but the transformation is magical. Here’s how we help you heal from trauma that’s plagued you for decades AND create more fulfilling, connective relationships and BDSM dynamics at the same time.
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Assess
First, book a free BDSM Breakthrough Session where we’ll figure out what will move the needle fastest.
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Rewire
Next, we dive deep into your trauma and limiting beliefs. Using holistic processes, we rewire your body and brain.
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Design
Meanwhile, we design your ideal BDSM dynamic. Single? Poly? Aro-ace? No problem! We can do this with you no matter what your orientation or partnership status is.
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Implement
Last, we work toward your goals together, implementing both baby-step and quantum-leap strategies so you attract what you want at the pace that’s best for you.